Well, as of this morning's ultrasound at 8 weeks 5 days, there was no longer a heartbeat and
the things had stopped growing. Ironically, I had started to feel more calm about things and like there was a chance things might work out. I should have known better than to let my guard down.
I have no idea what happened. The heartbeat was very strong at the last ultrasound. The OB said that, since the embryos were tested for abnormalities prior to transfer, that was an unlikely cause. He thought that maybe the bad location resulted in a lack of blood supply but I guess I'll never know for sure. It makes things very complicated because I don't know whether I need a surrogate or not on a next attempt. I'm really starting to feel like my body is hopeless when it comes to carrying a pregnancy even though none of the Dr.'s have been able to find anything wrong with me.
I'm still in shock. I can't believe that after all this time and effort we're right back where we started again.
Tuesday, May 1, 2007
Wednesday, April 25, 2007
A little bit of hope
Amazingly, the appointment with the high risk OB yesterday went better than expected.
I was so fearful of getting horrible news. What we ended up getting was a little bit of hope.
The OB said he was going to go out on a limb and say he did not think it was a cornual implantation. However, it was too early for him to be certain. He thinks it's just a very high implantation which could straighten itself out as it grows. I'm praying that's the case. He wants to keep a close eye on me so I'll be going back in next week on Tues. for another u/s.
Before the Dr. came in the room yesterday, the nurse did a u/s and we heard the heartbeat for the first time. I also got to see the screen (I wasn't allowed to in my last 2 ultrasounds as they were STAT u/s done to look for a potential problem). I could help but think how horrible it would be to have to terminate after that and I started crying. My husband held it together for my sake but I could tell he was really upset too. The Dr. seemed puzzled when he walked in. He was like "I haven't even said anything yet!" I told him we were just so used to getting bad news.
It's hard for me to acknowledge that I'm even pregnant right now. I haven't been able to since I've been feeling like I'm just going week to week waiting for the ax to fall. I'm just hoping that each u/s will make a cornual pregnancy look less likely and I can relax a little.
I was so fearful of getting horrible news. What we ended up getting was a little bit of hope.
The OB said he was going to go out on a limb and say he did not think it was a cornual implantation. However, it was too early for him to be certain. He thinks it's just a very high implantation which could straighten itself out as it grows. I'm praying that's the case. He wants to keep a close eye on me so I'll be going back in next week on Tues. for another u/s.
Before the Dr. came in the room yesterday, the nurse did a u/s and we heard the heartbeat for the first time. I also got to see the screen (I wasn't allowed to in my last 2 ultrasounds as they were STAT u/s done to look for a potential problem). I could help but think how horrible it would be to have to terminate after that and I started crying. My husband held it together for my sake but I could tell he was really upset too. The Dr. seemed puzzled when he walked in. He was like "I haven't even said anything yet!" I told him we were just so used to getting bad news.
It's hard for me to acknowledge that I'm even pregnant right now. I haven't been able to since I've been feeling like I'm just going week to week waiting for the ax to fall. I'm just hoping that each u/s will make a cornual pregnancy look less likely and I can relax a little.
Sunday, April 22, 2007
possible cornual ectopic....
Over the past 4 years of dealing with infertility, I've relied heavily on reading others infertility related blogs and frequenting message boards where women who are involved in the IVF process come together. I don't know what I'd do without the internet. Being able to make contact with others going through the same struggles has largely kept me sane (well, relatively sane anyway).
I finally decided today to start my own blog. If nothing else, it may help me vent. Ideally, it will help others going through this to feel less alone.
I'm also finding myself in one of the most stressful situations I've ended up in throughout this whole journey. After 5 fresh cycles and 4 frozen, my husband and I finally had success. Growth is on target and there is a heartbeat. Right now, I'm 7 weeks, 3 days. Yet, there is concern about where the embryo implanted. I always thought a pregnancy was either ectopic (bad) or intrauterine (good) but apparently there's a type of ectopic pregnancy called a cornual or insterstitial ectopic which can be in the uterus but up in the extreme corner in front of the tube. This type of pregnancy will also eventually rupture but usually when one is further along because there is more room for growth in that area. When one of these ruptures, blood loss is severe. According to what I've read, most women who die from ectopic pregnancies die from this type. Lovely.
Well, my first u/s (done at 5wks 4 days) indicated that a cornual implantation was a possibility. I was told to wait a week and hopefully things would look more clear. The 2nd u/s basically showed the same result. The technician was not willing to say it was a cornual pregnancy but couldn't say it wasn't either.
At that point, my OB suggested a MRI for better visualization but I was hesitant to do a MRI in the first trimester since so many things warn against it. We ended up deciding to hold off
for one more week (after I got a warning about the possibility of rupture....although even the OB agreed it would be early for this type to rupture). I'll be having an u/s done with a high risk OB on Tues. I'll be 7 weeks 5 days at that point. I have never been so anxious about anything in my life. I could potentially get the most horrible news of my life on Tues. or the best.
I finally decided today to start my own blog. If nothing else, it may help me vent. Ideally, it will help others going through this to feel less alone.
I'm also finding myself in one of the most stressful situations I've ended up in throughout this whole journey. After 5 fresh cycles and 4 frozen, my husband and I finally had success. Growth is on target and there is a heartbeat. Right now, I'm 7 weeks, 3 days. Yet, there is concern about where the embryo implanted. I always thought a pregnancy was either ectopic (bad) or intrauterine (good) but apparently there's a type of ectopic pregnancy called a cornual or insterstitial ectopic which can be in the uterus but up in the extreme corner in front of the tube. This type of pregnancy will also eventually rupture but usually when one is further along because there is more room for growth in that area. When one of these ruptures, blood loss is severe. According to what I've read, most women who die from ectopic pregnancies die from this type. Lovely.
Well, my first u/s (done at 5wks 4 days) indicated that a cornual implantation was a possibility. I was told to wait a week and hopefully things would look more clear. The 2nd u/s basically showed the same result. The technician was not willing to say it was a cornual pregnancy but couldn't say it wasn't either.
At that point, my OB suggested a MRI for better visualization but I was hesitant to do a MRI in the first trimester since so many things warn against it. We ended up deciding to hold off
for one more week (after I got a warning about the possibility of rupture....although even the OB agreed it would be early for this type to rupture). I'll be having an u/s done with a high risk OB on Tues. I'll be 7 weeks 5 days at that point. I have never been so anxious about anything in my life. I could potentially get the most horrible news of my life on Tues. or the best.
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